Safe and happy neighborhoods
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Safe and Happy Neighborhoods

Some time ago I sat with a city councilman and other members of the community to discuss how we might improve our neighborhoods.

 

“We need more police presence in our neighborhoods,” someone suggested right away. Most everyone agreed.

I sat back in my seat and listened to their argument. When they were finished discussing the idea of increasing the police force in an effort to curb the crime, speeding, and other safety issues in our community, I sat up in my seat as someone said, “That’s an interesting perspective. What if, however, we were to approach the problems in our community from another angle.”

All eyes were on this person. I mean, what other angle could there possibly be, right?

“What if we were to engage more with those around us in a way that we could prevent future problems from arising?” they asked.

Now this person really had our attention. “What exactly do you mean?” we questioned.

The woman proceeded to share ideas on how we as individuals and families might engage more fully with those in our neighborhood, thereby reducing future problems and eliminating the need for more police presence.

 

The feedback was all positive:

“That’s an amazing perspective.”

“Fantastic ideas!”

“Why didn’t I think of that?”

“I’m going to start doing some of those things myself!”

 

Now I ask you, “What if we knew that the young boy down the street had no father figure in his life and was headed down the wrong path in life. Rather than watching the all-too familiar scene unfold—�a life of crime that often ends in prison—�could not a father or grandfather step forward to fill the role of a father figure in the boy’s life, thereby increasing the chance of a positive outcome?

If we knew that the individual down the street was dealing with overwhelming health problems and was, therefore, unable to maintain her yard, rather than reporting her to the HOA, could we not gather together a group of willing individuals to offer assistance with yard work on occasion?

If we dislike the grumpy neighbors on our street, could we not remember that everyone has a story to tell, meaning that everyone’s life circumstances have led them to where they are today. There is no telling the pain, sorrow, and difficulty others have faced in the past. Can we not look at them with new eyes, give them the benefit of the doubt, and shout out a cheery hello the next time we pass them on the street?

If a new neighbor moves in, rather than avoiding eye contact, can we not stop by and welcome them to the neighborhood?

Can we not wave when driving by, smile and say “hello” when walking by, and sit down to visit on occasion?

Can we not rely less on the city, and more on ourselves?

 

Each positive action, no matter how small, makes a difference.

 

Here are some more ideas:

Connect people in the community (especially youth) to activities or programs that help them find positive ways to spend their spare time. After-school programs, tutoring centers, part-time work, and volunteer opportunities go a long way toward keeping youths and adolescents away from negative influences.

Create and distribute a list of local organizations that can provide counseling, job training, guidance, and other services that could benefit people in the community.

Clean up the neighborhood! Organizing a neighborhood clean up is great way to get people out of the house, and working together around a common cause. Buildings with broken windows, abandoned cars, and even litter sends a message to criminals that the community has become complacent.

Start a weekly discussion group. It can be as minimal as a regular gathering at a neighbor’s house to share ideas and communicate with each other about what you see going on in the community. This also provides great opportunities to update your neighbors on your current schedule, or let them know if you’ll be out of town.

Set up a Neighborhood Watch. A trusted neighbor who keeps a vigilant eye on your home is one of the best crime deterrents there is.

As members of our community, it is the responsibility of each one of us, to step forward and make our neighborhoods a safer, happier, and better place to live.

 

If only there were more compassion in the world, it would solve so many of our problems.

 

Looking for more ideas on how to get involved?

1. Stay outside in the front yard longer while watering the yard
2. Walk your dog regularly around the same time in your neighborhood
3. Sit on the front porch and letting kids play in the front yard
4. Pass out baked goods (fresh bread, cookies, brownies, etc.)
5. Invite neighbors over for dinner
6. Attend and participate in HOA functions
7. Attend the parties invited to by neighbors
8. Do a food drive or coat drive in winter and get neighbors involved
9. Host a music share party in your home (everyone brings 5 favorite songs and discusses)
10. Offer to mow someone’s yard who needs it on your street
11. Have a garage sale
12. Organize a tasting tour on your street (everyone sets up food and table on front porch)
13. Cook Out with gate open, or even in the front yard and let neighbors know they are welcome to join. 14. Have a game night (yard games outside, or board games inside)
15. Art swap night – bring out what you’re tired of and trade with neighbors
16. Grow a garden and give out extra produce to neighbors
17. Have an Easter egg hunt on your block and invite neighbors use their front yards
18. Start a weekly open meal night in your home
19. Do a summer BBQ every Friday night and invite others to contribute
20. Create a block/ street email and phone contact list for safety
21. Invite your neighbors to serve along with you for a local cause in your community
22. Organize a backyard movie night for kids on your block
23. Prayer walk and talk to people you come across
24. Jog outside instead of on the treadmill
25. Pull their trash back in when you notice its out
26. Cook an extra casserole and give it to a neighbor
27. Buy an extra dozen donuts and give them to a neighbor
28. Start a compost pile and allow neighbors to dump their compost and take
29. Host a sports game watching party
30. Host a coffee and dessert night
31. Organize and host a ladies craft night
32. Organize an effort for neighbors to help take care of elderly in neighborhood
33. Become a regular at your neighborhood pool/park

34. If you have a skill, let neighbors know that you can use it to help them for free

35. Host a movie night and discussion afterwards

36. Start a walking/running group in the neighborhood
37. Start hosting a play date weekly for other stay at home parents
38. Organize a carpool for your neighborhood to help save gas
39. Collect good will store items and offer to take them to goodwill
40. Have a front yard ice cream party in the summer
41. Start a sowing group
42. Go Christmas caroling in your neighborhood (invite neighbors in on it)
43. Throw a July 4th block party
44. Start a neighborhood Facebook/Twitter/Google + group
45. Ask longtime residents to help you learn about the neighborhood
46. Offer to babysit neighbors kids so they can have a date night
47. Find out your neighbors birthdays and take them a card and baked goods on it
48. Set up a meet your neighbors night with drinks in your driveway/front yard
49. Ask your HOA or apartment complex if they need help with anything
50. Host a regular Saturday morning breakfast potluck

See the complete list of ideas at: http://gcfmn.org/~gcfmn/cms-assets/documents/117848-708206.100-ways-to-engage-neighbors.pdf

 

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Day 20 Challenge: In what way might you make your neighborhood a safer and happier place this week, this month, this year? Choose one idea and act on it!

 

This is Day 20 of my Write 31 Days series for 2017: 31 Days to an Authentic Life.
For an index of all the posts in the series, please click HERE.

 

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